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WHY JOIN A MEN'S GROUP?

BELONGING - A men's group can be the foundation of some really close friendships. Many men say that the guys in their group know them more closely than their own families. Others have found that they've learned to trust other men, after years of being wary and uncertain. This sense of  trust and belonging developed in the group environment can then spread outwards to their everyday lives.

BEING REAL - A well run men's group is a safe place for men to be real, not only to express what's really going on for them, but to learn from the experience of others who are also prepared to drop their mask and be vulnerable.

Many men were brought up to believe that a real man is macho, in control of his surroundings and unaffected by doubt, guilt, frustration, and the fear of not measuring up. They are often surprised to find that other men also find it challenging to reconcile what's going on inside with their expectations of being a real man.

THE FLIGHT SIMULATOR - A safe and supportive men's group can be a great place to try out new things, or even just to blow off some steam. It's a place where the "plane" can crash without any one getting hurt.

IMPROVED SELF WORTH AND ACCEPTANCE - Men who belong to groups report major improvements in self-worth, self-acceptance and self-esteem, coming from the awareness they get from the other men.

CHANGING HABITS AND OLD PATTERNS - We all have patterns of behaviour that no longer serve us - scripts that are programmed deeply into our "autopilots". And sometimes it's easier to recognise these patterns in other members of the group before we see them in ourselves. The group can not only help with awareness, but also in supporting men through the challenge of changing these patterns, by both encouraging them and holding each other accountable.

BETTER CONNECTION AND RELATIONSHIPS - A solid men's group will have guidelines and protocols that make it safe for a man (and for the group) to discuss uncomfortable or controversial topics (yes, even sex, politics or religion) without making anyone else wrong. Men then find they can use the same tools to have meaningful conversations that may have previously gone nowhere.

NEW DIRECTIONS - Some men find the personal growth from the group helps them to find or fine tune their passion into a new direction, giving them and those around them a more rewarding life.

SO WHY JOIN A MEN'S GROUP?

• Belong with men who will help you and give you honest feedback.
• Have an authentic connection with others who will support you and celebrate your achievement every step of the way.
• Be part of a trusted circle of men where you can discuss things you might be unable to discuss with anyone else.
• Be challenged and kept accountable to your commitments.
• A safe place where you don’t have to defend yourself or compete.
• A place to have fun and learn about real lifelong friendships.